My Theory

"Forget what you heard, recognize what you see. I know you heard the here's the real me." XoXo

Wednesday, September 30, 2009

Ladies and Gents..... Why The Games??

Why do men and woman play such silly games with each other? Read my list of common games and if your guilty of some of them for pete's sake CHANGE IT!!!

Ladies, why do woman see a cute guy and as soon as he looka at you, you look away and pretend we werent looking? Not all woman do this but if you do don't fake and look away. If you see an attractive man don't play shy, flash him a subtle smile instead :-}

Fellas, why do you use the same "Good Morning" or "Good Night" texts on every girl you like in the beginning? Booooo can you switch up the game a little because if I get one more "Good Morning" text from a new guy I'm gonna SCREAM!!!!

Ladies, why do woman say they are cool with "just kickin it" or being "cuddy buddies" when they know they want a relationship? If you can't keep it 100 you don't need a cuddy buddy!

Men, why do you chase, cheat and jeopordize your relationship with the the sexual promiscious chick yet wife the wholesome "good girl?" Just be with the promiscous chick if thats what you like!!

Ladies, why do some woman pretend to not need or want a man just to prove they are independant? Ladies you can have/want a man and STILL be independant!!

Men, if you no longer feel a chick or preoccupied with someone else why is there always the girl you keep an open door with just in case? Either walk through that door or close the freaking door *!slam!*

Ladies, why are some woman still going out on dates just to get a free meal? If your too cheap to buy yourself a meal why expect someone else to.

Men, why do some of you think the world revolves around you just because your attractive, have a good job and a few muscles? FYI just because some woman act like there is a shortage of men, there actually are alot of single, attractive men out there who have themselves together so please stop acting like the last Mohigan

Ladies, why do you let your "cuddy buddies" meet your children? Your cuddy buddy isn't going to be your boyfriend stop letting the baby see all these men!!

Fellas, why do you go to the club and bag 10 numbers and then not use 1 of them. That is so corny because while you was wasting "Lisa's" time practicing your game, she could have been hollaring at Keith who would have really called. Don't waste other peoples timem it's rude!!!

Ladies, why do woman sometime "pretend" to be busy just to make it seem like they are really doing something? How about you get some hobbies and actually really be busy instead of faking!!!

Fellas, don't some of you know by now that you don't have to lie. You can be straight up with a woman and tell her exactly what it is and if she really wants to deal with you she will regardless, aint gotta lie CRAIG!!!

Tuesday, September 29, 2009

I Heart You!!!

So today's question is what does "love you" really mean? Not in regards to feelings or emotions but more so what happens once "love you" is said"? Do people become madly in love and pledge to be together for as long as the ride last? If you are not currently with the person that said "love you" does the declaration of love make both people skip right into "in a relationship status?"

Maybe, absolutely nothing changes and its just a word that describes an intense emotion, that one feels the need to identify out loud. I just want to know what comes after...."love you"? and if nothing comes after it then why does society place so much importance on the L word?

Would love to hear your thoughts!!!

Monday, September 28, 2009

Looking Past IT

I been gone for a minute but I'm baaaaaaacccckkk!

September has been an emotional roller coaster for me. There was times I didn't know if I was coming or going, hell to be honest I STILL don't know if I'm coming or going. What I do know is that I'm determined. I determined to figure out this thing called life and to grab it by the horn and get it before it gets me. September has brought me financial struggles, a month of no shopping, a "will you be my girl" followed by someone who won't return my calls because I only want to be friends, a best friend losing focus of our friendship, and an unexpected "love you" from someone I can't have.

I don't know whats really good right now but I'm tired of crying and walking around with a question on my forehead. I have no clue why thing happen the way they do. I have no clue how to fix some of the problems in my life. I just know its time for change, and that change must first start in my way of thinking!!!!

So call it enlightenment, call it a temporary high from the gym (just left there an hour ago) but after a month of feeling the blues I'm filled with hope. Now is the time to speak those things that are not, as though they were. October is going to be GREAT, heck TOMORROW is going to be great!!! I'm looking past how thing are and at how I want them to be!!!

Monday, September 14, 2009

My Top 10 Hottest Black Men Alive

Here is my list of the 10 hottest black men alive. Some made the list for their looks others made the list because their swag is so cool they made me believe they are hot. Let me know your thoughts!!!!!

Monday, September 7, 2009

Why Tiny and Toya Makes Black Woman Look Bad

We all know the song, and have used the phrase "Our president is Black." Well along side our amazing president is the astounding first lady Michelle Obama. In a era in which the career options of a woman are boundless, shows like "Tiny and Toya" take us back to 1964. The show depicts the lives of the woman of 2 of the worlds most famous rappers, TI and Lil Wayne.

The direction of the show is completely unclear to me as these woman do not portray strength,intelligence, ambition or class. I might sound a tad harsh in my assessment however, this show sets a terrible example for all young girls watching. We have Michelle Obama who is a wife, a mother, a Harvard graduate and so much more yet, "Tiny" will say on national television that she doesn't know if she should go back to work because TI doesn't want her to. Toya was shown knocking door to door looking for her mom who is currently on drugs and I cannot recall a episode in which Lil Wayne nor TI's name was not mentioned during the show. With deep concentration I can understand what these woman are saying but when first hearing them speak it's as if they speak in script, all their words are connected. How has this become the proper representation of an African American woman?

Tiny deserves minimal credit for her success in Escape however, she does not expose herself to be a strong intelligent business woman. Toya resents being referred to as "Lil Wayne's baby mom's" yet, she is writing a book about her previous marriage centered around the rapper.

I hold no judgement on these woman individually, but my qualm is that they are a poor representation of an African American woman in 2009. African Americans have finally made it and we do not necessarily come from the ghetto, have family members on drugs or speak improperly and blame it on "our southern roots."

"Tiny and Toya" is a show that should have never been picked up by BET let alone aired. TI is now incarcerated and Lil Wayne is expecting 2 babies at the same time from 2 different woman. Is TI and Lil Wayne really the ideal men whose wives/woman should be highlighted? The entertainment reality tv provides us with after a stressful day of work is humorous however, Tiny and Toya's show makes sista's look bad and black people look bad!

Sneakers in Pretty Packaging!!!

Fellas, if you thought pretty packaging just applied to "girly" things you were wrong.

A new concept that is sure to create a frenzy is the unique new packaging of some of the latest kicks. From Nikes, to Adidas, to Kanye West's new LV kicks, the new packaging concept for sneakers no longer includes the typical standard cardboard box. Innovative designs now have sneakers packaged in everything from bullet like cylinder to Eco-friendly cartons. While the customized detail packaging is definitely a strong selling point some manufactures have found that the peculiar structure has caused a significant increase in production and shipping cost. One unique box you are sure to see is the LV packaging of Kanye West's new kicks. I'm not sure who will be wearing them but at least the packaging is classy.

Saturday, September 5, 2009

Calling all Sex in the City Fans!!!!

Not sure how I missed the memo but apparently filming for SATC 2(Sex and the City) started early this week. NYC's four favorite gals are reuniting one more time with promise of Louboutins, couture, comedy, sex and oh yes Mr. Big. The sequel will be filmed in New York and London and is scheduled to be released on May 28, 2010. Despite talk of cat fights and possible feuding all four girls will return for the sequel. Celebrity guest appearances are rumored to include Victoria Beckham, Katie Holmes, Miley Cyrus and a possible reprising role for Jennifer Hudson as "Louise".

Filming for the show has caused onlookers to go crazy and the set has beefed up the security just to manage the crowd. With talks that Mr. Big will battle with infidelity and fans might be forced to watch our Carrie go through yet another heartbreak, SATC 2 is bound to be a hit at the box office.

So ladies, if your four bffs include Carrie, Samantha, Charlotte and Miranda I'll see you at the box office on May 28, 2010. Stay tuned for more details to come!!!!!