What are blue collar tendencies you ask? Ok, I will tell you, just keep in mind this is my blog my opinions
-Inability to plan, dates/dinners everything is last minute preferenced by "I'm spontaneous".-Inability to dress appropriately for the occasion. Dinner date includes me dressed up in an after work outfit and him in jeans, a shirt, and sneakers even though it is a Thursday at 5:30.
-Inability to be assertive in everyday life usually taking the more laid back approach, thus making me make all the decisions.
So what are white collar tendencies, I am sure you are wondering. Well white collar tendencies usually include a man who will always be dressed correctly for a date, he will always have a plan and we will usually have a pretty decent allowance for dinner. The drawback, is that white collar men can sometimes be playboys, workaholics and sometimes just too arrogant/self absorb.
Nonetheless, for the purpose of this blog I want to explore the psyche of the blue collar man. Their good traits usually include: humbleness, kind heartedness, and hardworking. However, despite these good traits for me I have always found it somewhat challenging, to date a blue collar man. The saying fail to plan means you plan to fail was very prevalent in my house growing up. So at a early age my mom has always taught us to plan. Even if I do not have a solid plan out loud I have one strategized in my head. These days when it’s time to go out, it is not a foreign thought that the guy will leave the date for the night up to me. The place, the activity, the time, everything. Which leaves me to wonder what happened to the days when men were go getters and had a plan in mind and all us ladies had to do was look pretty and be ready?